Most long-term relationships get a bit dull because of sex. Let's face it; it is one of the most common relationship problems experienced by married couples and long-time partners. And the fun and excitement just becomes less frequent. Do you remember the last time you were getting busy under the sheets? Do you remember how it is to make love to your partner twice, thrice or even five times a day? Well you can make that happen again with just a little more effort. And to help you with that, here are some very effective ways to spice things up in the bedroom:
- An Exciting Role Play
Don't be afraid to be more creative and satisfy your fantasies by role playing. How about playing as a maid or as a teacher? Those are the most classic acts that certainly work. And surprise your partner by dressing up with very sexy lingerie and give him a little dance to tease and seduce him. For men, dress up as a cop, firefighter or a leather-clad biker to satisfy her fantasies and give her that sexual boost.
- Be More Adventurous and Make Use of Sex Toys
You'd be surprised how male sex toys can be a very helpful tool in spicing things up in the bedroom. Using sex toys might make you feel uncomfortable at first, but it can help you satisfy each other's sexual pleasures and even find new ways to play with each other's body.
- Have Sex Anywhere But the Bedroom
Take her against the wall, do some action in the kitchen or simply enjoy a hot and steamy bath together. Forget about the classic bedroom sex and take the excitement and adventure up a notch! How about the couch? Well, that is certainly one exciting way to spend the night together.
- Dirty Talk
When was the last time you gave each other a sweet and sexy whisper? Perhaps you've forgotten to call him in the middle of the day saying how you want him inside your body. Maybe you haven't talked to her like you used to before. And perhaps it is time that you bring those sweet and dirty talks to spice up your relationship. Even when you are at work, don't forget to tease your partner with a sexy note to help you anticipate and look forward for a hot and exciting action with your partner.
- New Sex Positions
Don't be afraid to learn more how to make sex an exciting one. You can actually know more about the different sexual positions in the Internet or by simply grabbing a Kama Sutra. On the other hand, you need to remember that learning new sexual positions is not an act of lust, but is actually a way for you to create a stronger bond with your partner. It cannot be denied that venturing and satisfying each other's sexual fantasies can heat things up and make long-term relationships a whole lot more fun and exciting.